Martellus Bennett Rants About The Dark Side of Football: ‘Most of Your Favorite Players Aren’t Good People’ (TWEETS)
Martellus Bennett is a man that was never afraid to speak his mind on and off the field. The former NFL tight end is even more honest about the game he played now that he is fully retired.
On Tueday night, Bennett took to Twitter and sent out a rash of harsh tweets about the game of football. It all started with him replying to a TMZ article about Brandon Marshall wanting to fight boxer Deontay Wilder.
While he made a joke there, his next tweets were no laughing matter.
He began by saying, “Honestly football made me such an angry person.”
“Everything bothered me,” Bennett tweeted. “Football is interesting. Psychologically it’s some really dangerous s—. To really play the game of football you have to [have] some f—ed up wiring in your head. It’s chaotic. It takes years and years of brainwashing to go along with a lot of the s—. It starts at peewee. That’s why you gotta watch who is coaching your kids and what they’re teaching them beyond the game.
“We were groomed from a young age to care a little less about humans. If you’re the back up and the man in front of you go down. You kinda get excited but feel bad at the same time. S— [is] crazy.”
Bennett says most coaches and players associated with football aren’t “good people” in general, but says there “are some good dudes” still.
“Football really f—s up your mental. Integrating back into everyday society after a career continues to be a struggle for a lot of guys. The PTSD. The Identity Crisis. The pain,” Bennett tweeted. “The constant reminder of who you used to be by fans and trophies and highlights and family as you’re trying to transition into the new you really slows down the process. Also starting over. Shedding the ego and starting over after you’ve made it to the top is hard. It’s hard to become a nobody after you were a somebody.
“Also guys should also prepare their families for retirement. Life after football. Because everyone is retiring because football is truly family when you’re a player or coach. The other thing that I’ve talked [with] guys [about is] they [are] no longer being a part of the locker room. Understanding that a lot of people weren’t really their friend, it was just the proximity that brought the closeness. Really hurts athletes. After all you’ve been through you would think y’all would be friends forever. You’ve put your body on the line for these dudes. This team. Y’all shower together. Cry together. Been around each other kids. And when you’re no longer on the team that bond can be broken quickly.”
Bennett continued on with his story stating his post-NFL life can send some players to a “dark place” because it can be tough to handle.
“No longer being ‘famous,’ some guys need that stardom. Well, they don’t NEED it but they crave it. How could you not. It’s been a drug since childhood. You’ve been a star for forever but how can you shine without the game,” he tweeted. “That drives a lot of players into a dark place. Which is fascinating because they wanna shine so badly that they end up in the darkest of places.
“Another thing that be happening is most guys don’t know how to make money. Making money is hard as f—. Once your body breaks down, that money machine is gone. And unfortunately the spare parts in the mind that don’t break are so rusty you get discouraged when trying to use em.”
“The other thing that happens is questioning if it was all worth it,” he said. “When you struggle lifting up your kid. Or your mind doesn’t work right. You go broke you begin questioning if it was all worth it. And more times than not most would say no when truly being honest. A lot of people think I be s—ing on football but that’s not true. I just provide a different perspective on the experience. Athletes experience a lot of physical and mental abuse. It’s a traumatic experience. I believe guys must find a way to deal with the physical and mental trauma after they leave the game.
“It’s a tough balancing act during your career because the trauma is the only thing that pushes you to do it. And the moment you start addressing trauma the foundation that everything you believed in begins to crumble. And you can’t perform on a crumbling foundation. Athletes mask their pain everyday for years to be tough. Do you know how thick that mask becomes after years and years of wearing it? And what type of inner struggle it creates when it comes to communicating the pains you endure after? Most guys/women (this is something all athletes experience) probably think they’re just being a little b— about some stuff and never truly address and it eats at em more and more everyday.”
Bennett retired in 2018, finishing his career with 433 career receptions for 4,573 yards and 30 touchdowns.